Fortunately, I have very interesting Facebook friends and they play their own fair role in inspiring some of my posts here and my radio show topics. Sometimes, I lift their piece to share here because they make sense.
This time, my focus is on Ugonna Ufere’s wall. He is a married man who is followed by ‘battalions of women’ as they are fondly called by passers-by like myself.
He did a post on his wall with the image above, asking women what the number one question they hate being asked by men is and the rest was history.
Of all the questions dropped, I think the most annoying one for me has to be, ‘how many boyfriends have you had? and the body count question. I mean…how is that your business and how does it affect your purpose in my life?
Here are the questions and with 263 comments, you bet all the listed questions were mentioned more than ones:
How many are you in your family? (From someone asking me out)What do you do for a living???? (Meanwhile we just met)How old are you?#StupidQuestionsMenAsk You are very beautiful but why are you still single? Click To TweetWhat do you do for a living?What’s your body count? (Abi na how many body count, forgotten how the question is phrased sef)I hate it when men ask me the one question I hate men to ask me. (This one is definitely confused).So, why are you still single?#StupidQuestionsMenAsk Are you a virgin? Click To TweetTell me more about yourself. (Especially from Facebook friends it’s annoying to me)When was the last time you did it? (Did what biko?)How long have you been working?Have you eaten?#StupidQuestionsMenAsk Do you stay alone? Click To TweetDon’t you know you are a Woman?Are you a Feminist?Has anyone told you are such an angel to behold?Hubby asking me how much money I need! (msheew…I be like one billion)What colour of pant you have on?When was the last time you had sex?How was your night?Are you in a relationship?#StupidQuestionsMenAsk How many boyfriends have you had? Click To TweetHave you had an abortion?Are you choosy?So is this your real hair? (Yes I paid for it and you can’t afford to.)Do you love sex?#StupidQuestionsMenAsk Can you cook? Click To TweetAre you a graduate?Have we met before?Do you have a gold card?Why are you divorced?#StupidQuestionsMenAsk How many relationships have you had? Click To TweetWhat does your father do?Are you a model?#StupidQuestionsMenAsk Are you really married? Click To TweetWhy are you not married?Can I come lay with you?
As funny and petty as they all sound, a man slipped into the women party to drop this comment and it is spot on! for me
No matter how grotesquely sounding the question is, it’d be like a sweet smelling scent as long as the lady admires or trips for the guy. Forget the myriads of reactions or responses you get here. They are only for the unfortunate dudes they do not fancy!
Well, what do you say? Share your thoughts and that very annoying question they missed in the comment box below. (Also use the tweet prompts above to share the conversation with your network)