I am a lady in need of your advice. I met a guy about 2 years ago and we have been in a relationship for 14months now. He’s nice to me in the sense that I have never had any reason to think he is cheating on me or doesn’t love me. We chat when we both can or when our job lets us. He is sure to call me at least twice a day and he is someone I can tell every/anything.
But my guy has found greater love in his car. Please I don’t want you people to feel I am materialistic or about my man’s money. I love him and am happy with him. But then, a woman needs to be pampered in a little extra way. He has never been there for me financially. After 8months into the relationship, I talked to my friend about this and she told me there are men that expects you to ask and there are some that doesn’t need their woman asking to know what they should do for her. She suggested I should ask him, even if it’s something very little, to know what his reactions will be and that secondly, me not asking him might make me look too independent and scare him away.
Low and behold, I thought through it all and decided to ask. I finally made a request and the response I got was that he just fixed his car and doesn’t have money. Every time I talk about any need, its either he just fixed his car or he has to fix the car.
I have gotten my man a couple of gifts just to surprise him, I get him shirts when I go shopping. Not that I am counting but I have never gotten a gift from my man in a relationship of about 14months. Dear readers, does that make sense? Is it normal? Is this relationship safe for me and my future? Is he in a relationship with me or the car? Please I need your sincere advice. Thanks.
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