Hello Elsians, *clears cobwebs*
How are you doing? *kills cockroach*
*whew* Been a while we visited this segment on the blog. I need a janitor. *coughs* I got this email some days ago and I decided to share this one.
I am counting on you not to let me let this lady down. She is counting on me and I am counting on you. That’s how the world go round. Simply share your opinion/advice using the comment box below. Thank you. Please be blunt, critical but nice.
I met this guy at my workplace, as at the time, he told me he was in a relationship with a girl spanning 8yrs, but claims he no longer has feelings for the girl.
Fast forward, he travelled abroad for his masters, before he travelled, he proposed to the girl, I got to know from a mutual friend because he deleted me off his bbm.
I let go and went on with my life, he tried to reach me but I shut him out. When he came back after a year, he kept trying to make us friends, and then we started talking, I guess after a while, they started having issues and she returned the ring, meanwhile he spends all of his time with me, he further mentioned that we should get back together, I hesitated at 1st but then we got back together, we have never had sex, he shows support most of the time, though we make out.
The issue now is, he still talks 2 the girl, they borrow each other money and he sends her airtime. I told him I wasn’t interested in him and broke up with him when I noticed all of that and he just came up with “its difficult for him 2 make everyone forget the 9yrs they been together because most of his friends still try to make them come back together and he feels like she would be devastated”.
Came back begging and said they only have a casual relationship and he’s ready to do anything to make it work. I have met his brother and when I insisted on meeting his parents, he invited me to a gathering where I saw them and just related but he didn’t officially introduce me, he said we would schedule a day to go to his parent’s house.
Now the issue is, just last week he mentioned his friend talking to him about his 9yrs relationship and he told me he needed the weekend to think, I got furious and cut off communication with him cos I thought he had decided, but he came up with he wants to be with me after I started ignoring him.
He keeps calling and saying he’s decided to be with me and for me to meet his parents, but I still checked and he sent the other girl airtime. My question now is, what should I do, should I just forget about him, even though it’s quite hard because we used to spend all of our free times together and we still clash at some regional meetings at work or should I give him another chance?