For those who prefer regular sexual intimacy, a long-distance relationship may seem very challenging. However, because you can’t physically have sex together doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy an active sex life with your partner. There are certain things you can do to maintain an active sex life in a long-distance relationship. In this article, I will share some of those things with you. Continue reading to find out!
1. Talk dirty as often as you can
Through regular dirty talk, reminisce about past sexual experiences with each other and fantasize about future sexual encounters. Phone sex can be fun for both of you. Also, write erotic messages to your partner to let them know you think about them. Send flirty texts about the last time you saw each other. Daydream about the next time you will be together by describing what you want your partner to do to you. Enjoy the moment.
2. Set dates to get naughty
I have had some imagery date scenarios with an ex. We will fix a date for a virtual date, gist, and sext. It can be pretty fun to do. Try to as romantic as possible. There is a series of naughty things you can do virtually. For instance, you can do a striptease for each other on a video call. Naughty texts, racy selfies, sexy gifs all play a huge role in fuelling the moment.
3. Be techy-sexy
Get techy. Explore apps like Tumblr to find a super-hot collection of gifs and pictures that you can send each other. Initiate a bit of tech foreplay and suggestive flirting with your partner. Try sexting throughout the day, sending nudes, and texting flirty messages. You can exchange flirty messages via a chat app like WhatsApp, Telegram, or even Apple Notes. Take advantages of apps that can help you maintain good sexual energy.
4. Play with sex toys
Talk about the sex toys you want to try together, and pleasure each other with these toys. Get sex toys and use them with your partner over the phone, either during a phone or video call. You could try the remote- and app-controlled We-Vibe Sync. There is also an oral sex simulator, like the Womanizer, which can help you pretend your partner is going down on you in the most realistic way possible. You and your partner could use toys together at the same time while talking dirty on the phone or sexting.
5. Surprise your partner with naughty photos and videos
When you are about to shower, send him a selfie of you wrapped in a towel. Or send a picture of a tempting body part. Tell him you’re thinking of him. Surprise nudes can be a great way to keep that sexual flame burning and let your partner know you think about them. Anyway, be thoughtful about sending these pictures and videos because your partner might not want to get turned on while working or in a particular environment.
6. Mutual Masturbation
You can try to role-play during masturbation sessions over the phone. Also, video apps like Skype, Google Hangouts, and FaceTime can help you feel like you are right there with your partner. Ask your partner to masturbate for you on video or while you guys are on a voice call. Both of you should hear each other cum (orgasm). If you’re masturbating, record your voice as you orgasm. Send it to her. Try to have fun.
Thank you for reading. Do you have suggestions or comments? Kindly share them with me in the comment section. Have a beautiful sex life!