Why do some people think it is wrong for female to purchase condoms or even carry condoms in her bag for use when the need arises? It’s funny how we encourage men to not be ashamed of the fact that they are being sexually responsible but shame ladies for doing same.
I read this tweet from @Healthertainer this morning and I kept wondering why anyone will decide to have any form of negative perception of a lady who is helping herself and her sexual partner be sexually responsible.
Let me tell you story as told by an elderly friend of mine; Mr. A met Lady B online and they started having conversations. Interesting conversations which sometimes turns sexual. Basically, they were sexting. They were both residing in the same state but for some reasons, they continued online for about 4months. They totally enjoyed each other’s company and the only thing left was to see and agree to whatever sort of relationship they wanted.
But ‘sisteh’ had other plans. It was a Friday night. She buzzed Mr. A to invite him over…He agreed…Na so house date take set. Mr. A told my friend about the invitation and a bit of how they met and what not. He was advised to go with a condom.
Mr. A blatantly refused. Claiming he was being celibate and that he doubts a woman will invite a man over for sex. Apparently, somebody didn’t get the woke memo. Some ladies care about themselves and their satisfaction just like men do. It’s now a world of equality. We don’t care about how our sexual preferences disrupt your already tailored patriarchal sense of reasoning. Ladies just live and enjoy
My friend told him, “Dude, it’s a Friday night, a lady you have been sexting with invites u over for dinner. What do u think she wants? A food eater?” But Mr. A wasn’t having it. He took his stubborn self to the lady’s house with no condom in wallet
Of course we didn’t follow him to her house. And this is not fiction, so I can’t tell you all angles. But he came back with feedback. Baba was sent out of the house to go get condom at 11:30pm. He was not allowed to take his phones too
Asides trying to figure out where to get condom in an unfamiliar area, at that hour of the night. He did it extremely konjified He also ended up using Durex Extra Safe instead of Durex Fetherlite elite, which works better for his size.
He claimed he didn’t enjoy himself but that the lady sure did enjoy herself. Who we go ask?
- As a man or woman, if u are active, please carry condom in your purse or wallet
- Carrying a condom does not mean usage. Also, not carrying a condom does not mean u won’t or don’t have sex
Why not stay safe by playing safe. Make sure u don’t play without jersey #NojerseyNoPlay
Embrace safe sex.
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