How to Love without SEX


HOW? Follow this tips on how to love without sex. Read below:

1. Tell her “I love you”.2. Hug him.3. Kiss her.4. Send flowers.5. Hold hands.6. Have deep, meaningful conversations.7. Treat each other nice.8. Smile at each other.9. Write poems to each other.10. Dance together.11. Talk about your feelings.12. Discuss problems.13. Just be together.14. Take him out.15. Tell her “I don’t want to be with anyone else”.16. Go to a drive-in.17. Ask how she’s feeling.18. Sort out disagreements.19. Give each other a back rub.20. Let him do your hair.21. Put up with his friends.22. Go to a concert together.23. Give each other gifts.24. Play pool together.25. Observe the stars together.26. Share some of the same hobbies.27. Kiss him on the ear.28. Whisper that I love him.29. Be nice to each other.30. Give a token from the heart.31. Visit his mother.32. Write love letters.33. Call him just to say “hello” or “good night”.34. Play footie.35. Blow her kisses.36. Give her a ring.37. Take her someplace meaningful or special.38. Have a romantic picnic in the park.39. Show affection.40. Talk about the reasons for our decision to wait to have sex.41. Buy him nice things.42. Go swimming together.43. Go hiking together.44. Be her best friend.45. Sit and talk for a long time.46. Be close.47. Share thoughts.48. Kiss her neck.49. Sing her a song.50. Do the things you used to do.51. Ask to be with her more.52. Build a stronger relationship.53. Do her housework.54. Communicate.55. Tell her you care.56. Caress each other.57. Stick up for him if he gets in trouble.58. Be sensitive.59. Tell her I’ll always be there for her.60. Listen.61. Go out of the way for each other.62. Go camping.63. Tell her I appreciate how she treats me.64. Respect each other.65. Buy him something sentimental.66. Carry her books home from school.67. Never let him go.68. Take a walk together.69. Go to a party.70. Cook for each other.71. Just touch each other.72. Leave a little love note in his pocket.73. Dedicate our favorite song on the radio.74. Speak the language of love – French– to him.75. Tell her the longer you wait, the better it will be.76. Arrange a date where we first met.77. Watch him compete in a sporting event.78. Spend the day at a carnival.79. Eat at a romantic restaurant with elegant music and a dance floor.80. Do homework together.81. Slip a note into her notebook.82. Treat her like a queen.83. Pay attention to her likes and dislikes.84. Make sure he’s comfortable.85. Send him a card.86. Draw a heart on a tree and putboth names in the middle.87. Call her every night.88. Hold each other close.89. Trust him.90. Support each other.91. Go for a drive.92. Take him skiing.93. Sit really close while watching a movie.94. Make him a present.95. Take care of him when he’s sick.96. Carry pictures of each other.97. Cuddle.98. Go to a sports event together.99. Watch a sunset together.100. Be faithful.101. Share secrets.

Written by Blessing Evasmile Ibeh


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  1. lol @shugar; very true oooh it doesn’t work @ all. all dem bois want is is to get into ur pant.. hahahaha! bt nice 1 elsieisy. ‘smiles’

  2. Much easier if the girl is a virgin, but if both are sexually active…..ghen ghen

  3. Olamide, why do you girls always think boys only want to get into your pant? is that the only thing you have to offer? If we want just sex, we can get it without toasting u know! don’t paint us like we are sex-starved animals. don’t you want sex too? abi is sex designed for a man’s enjoyment alone?

  4. And I don’t understand this article sef, Yes all the things mentioned are good when you are in love with someone, but how do they stop you from having sex?

    1. they are various ways of being occupied. Most relationships is all about the sex, so maybe when you add from 1-100 into your relationship, you both can be occupied to think sex

  5. Kiss on the ear ke? that’s a trigger for sex ni. Draw hearts on a tree too..isokay..Elsieisy you have been watching way toooo many movies. But i do agree with you that there can be love without sex..but all these ones you put some of them are triggers for sex o..but isokay

    1. loool, Blessing wrote it all o, and i agree there can be love without sex too. So we have something in common. lol

  6. I’m in almost a year relationship and we have never kissed. I am so amazed at his love for me. we hang out and we are always alone but we have NEVER KISSED not to talk of sex. there is sure love without sex. Don’t give benefits of marriage to someone you are not yet married to selah!

  7. I’m in almost a year relationship and we have never kissed. I am so amazed at his love for me. we hang out and we are always alone but we have NEVER KISSED not to talk of sex. there is sure love without sex. Don’t give benefits of marriage to someone you are not yet married to selah!

  8. Who kiss neck and kiss ear must kiss prick oh! That na serious torture. So when prick they rob ike during cuddling make I dey think of wetin? Blessing you wicked oh, chai.

  9. That no. 19 and 97 is sure access to what Williams just described… i can’t believe i’m reading this again though… couldn’t fault it the first time but true true… she who kiss neck and ears don turn things over… na to sing that number by Iyanya and Don Jazzy remain..

    1. On a seriouser note though… sex is overrated, we should all calm down a little and see eachother better and closer for who we are and not what we can offer… a smile sometimes is more pleasurable than that deadly arrival called cum… whatever is built on an erection will always end in rejection if it is not pure connection but based on pleasure. This is not to say that a relationship that is sexually alive will fail or one without it will succeed, it’s all conflicting but any relationship built on incentives is more likely to fail. Anything that can be bought should not and never be the bedrock of any relationship.. the last time i checked, sex can be purchased by both male and females, it is hawked on the street, building your relationship around something that you can only find in each other will keep it fresh for always.

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