As I read this mail this morning, I was going to let it be till next #AskElsie segment to share my opinion but I remembered Dear Elsians (Dear Elsians is a segment on elsieisy.com where people like you and I send in things that bother us and we get to share our opinion in order to help one of us). As you read this please remember this lady awaits your opinion. Endeavor to share your thought in the comment section of this post (anonymously or not). Read below:
I am ****, 26yrs old from Cross River state Calabar. I need expert advice regarding a personal matter.I have been friends with this guy ( Doctor) but we weren’t close buddies though ,we do have a lot of mutual friends hence we get to sit on d same table often(drinking & smoking )… so I’ll say we were acquaintances but then he seemed more interested in me than usual, we finally exchanged numbers and we got talking one on one now. .. I must confess I have been attracted to him but not enough to fantasize (LOL )I do admire his personality.
Now, Here is the problem; b4 we had ourselves a date (officially ). ..away from our mutual friends ,we had crossed the line or i crossed the line and I let him have sex with me ,this happened the day we exchanged numbers and he offered to drop me home …i didn’t think it was a big deal because any of them (our friends )can drop me if i cant reach my cab…I had mentioned having brandy at home passively while we were out with friends . He said he would like to have some …i agreed and he parked the car and came into my house…. well one thing led to another. .. from random innocent conversations to steamy tensed atmosphere .i must say i didnt know when i kissed him (i hadn’t had sex in a while tho) and he didn’t see it coming… well being a guy he took over and the rest is history,I did have the best sex ever (for real) he made me cum like a fool(multiple orgasms. .. I still shudder and feel those signature spasms down my spine)… we were just so compatible sexually..now i am feeling like a total SLUT who has blown her chance at something great coz am worried he may just conclude i am very cheap but he is the only one i have slept with amongst our friends but it happened too soon… but he hasn’t changed towards me though… he got me a present 3 days ago (surprise gift ) it seemed awkward initially but I am telling myself he genuinely cares but what if he’s only about the ass??! We agreed to stay great friends though and neither of us is in any relationship. .
I want him just for myself so bad but I don’t know if there’s a chance and I don’t want to look lyk am desperate or trying to cage him so I decided friends is cool but this time am keeping my legs closed!
What do you say?Yours sincerely ,****