Dear Elsians,I am writing this on behalf of a friend of mine who would probably kill me if she finds out. The thing is, I cannot keep it to myself; I am very confused and I want to be sure that I am not being judgmental.
My friend came to my house very excited a couple of months ago. When I asked her why, she told me that she was just coming back from an outing with her cousin. I wondered why she looked so flustered and excited and I asked. She told me that he was such a nice guy and blah blah blah. We joked over it and I told her to take it easy. I noticed that something was off when I jokingly asked her to hook me up with this Mr nice cousin and she got angry. I apologized and she did same and that was that.
Forward to some weeks later, my friend confides in me that she mistakenly slept with Mr. nice cousin. She is sleeping with her cousin. I talked and talked and advised her and she cried and agreed that it was wrong and won’t happen again. A few days later, she came back to tell me that they talked about it and agreed to stop but the chemistry between them was too strong and it happened again. Again,I talked and talked about incest and its troubles, she agreed and left again. This trend happened again and again until I got tired of talking.
I recently found out that she is five months pregnant for him now and the worse part is that they are on their way to abort the baby. What Advice would you have me give her, because i just got tired of talking? Any special help for such cases? Please, help me!!! It is urgent.