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Dear Elsians, Its another Friday, time to help someone in need on Elsieisy.com.
Kindly read through the conversation below and comment your 50kobo advice. This issue is sensitive and would appreciate a sincere, constructive, meaningful and thorough opinion/solution. No Insults please.
Apparently she has tried all possible medium in search of help. This guy in question satisfied her but to his own detriment. What do you think she should do to get help? Do you think it can be traced back to the guy that dis-virgined her? What do you Think?
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25 comments
First of all,I must commen the guy in d chat 4 showing that great deal of concern and taking it a step further to help look for solution. And I think with his support and regular visit to a gynaecologist, she would be fine soonest. Kudos to that guy once again. 🙂
I dont think anything for now, I might want to see what we are talking about live and direct before I can have any opinion! LMAO!
Wow. This gist get as e be o. Anyway like the first commenter said. There’s gotta be a good gynaecologist who can offer a lasting remedy to this issue. And the guy in the chat, his concern is commendable.
Even the guy sounded like a doctor at a point….i give kudos to the dude as well.,and as for d lady..i pray she finds a solution to it cos she is also worried.
Mhen! Ladies need to be careful with who they have sex with, she got it from one of d guys she had sex with….buh I will say kudos to this guy, he didn’t back off after d girl told him abt it, he found a solution buh she still needs to go deep even if its going to a church!!!
well.. i don’t know much about this, but then i think it has to do with the brain too… seeing a neurologist can also help… plus, gal keep praying, and putting your mind to the excitement while having sex, and also seek the necessary medical attention. it is well..
Gotta be some hormonal imbalance thing. And probably lack of enough foreplay. The right questions in the right directions and she’ll get help no doubt.
I agree with Caleb.. Hormonal Imbalance and lack of fore play.. She should engage in fore play more….
God will help her and heal d niggaz d*
I think it’s a medical condition that would require a therapy. Consulting with the right physician would help a great deal. But I commend her openness and sincerity. Kudos elsie.
A specialist in luv making need to work on her by sensitisizing her adrenaline into action, by the time the circuit of secretion get complete, she will have an easy flow in her pussy, provided she have a gud one that can stimulate her to her uttmost climax, incase u are confuse on how to take her there contact me I will lecture u, cos am special in my own kind when it comes to that.
1. Has she gotten good head?2. Has she tried using a good lube(play)?3. Has she touched herself to know what turns her on?If yes to all of the above, kindly see a doctor 😀
You are something else
Elsie,dis sets u apart from other blogs!Such a candid article. The bbm chat shows real mutual friendship between them cos the guy cares enough to listen.This rarely occurs between couples today,they’re so ashamed of being labeled so they hide things from each other even when they can always find a common ground on issues that concern them esp sex. In my opinion,its a psychological issue,I’d be surprised if it turns out medical.That could be a possibility too. The only therapy that may help is having dt guy who’ll be patient enough to try any and everything with her. Going straight to sex will not help! They should do a lot that’ll make her think of sex much more than she already does. Lots of sex chats(extremely erotic),romantic dates,lots of kinky conversations between them,not only when they are in private but also in public places,if possible softcore or hardcore porn etc. The guy should try to do things 4 her that’ll make her appreciate her own beauty n skin n boost her confidence.They should do all these,and not attempt sex yet,@ least until she begins to desire it.With time, she’ll get better am sure
Its all in her mind……she set d mentality she alone can hlp herslf to get rid of it. All she needs to do is change her mentality bout sex. I once had d mentality neva to enjoy sex til marriage nd it happened til I decided to hlp maslf nd change it…….all she needs is a clear mind, good foreplay for bout 2hrs nd den rili steaming sex. Den she wld drip nd nt jst get wet. A guy 1ce tot I was a lesbian cos I didn’t react to his touches but I alredi killed all my senses nd he didn’t kno. Dats also part of it….its gud to b in control but its also gud to enjoy it wen u shld. So she shld hlp herslf ,free her mind nd she wld get wet….or I can prescibe a beta sex partner for her tho….lol!!!
Nice comment from Cyril Edman, you took the words directly from my keyboard.Huny also made fine points.Elsie, keep up the good work.
This isnt a medical issue but a psychological one. She really needs to work on herself n forge ahead. I used to be a victim too n dat affected my confidence for a while. Thanks to good friends I confided in who helped by buying basic literatures about sex,hormones n issues surrounding dat. Its a psychological thing n she needs to explore on herself n find wat really turns her on. She shouldn’t be shy to experiment with sex toys. She should start with the bullet which stimulates the clit. She should read a lot of materials n watch loads of adult themed stuffs. She should stay off sex for a while n work on herself first. Its a subconscious thing dat kicks in n kick start the p. She shouldn’t av sex to satisfy the man or c it as an obligation to the relationship, rather av it cos she feels like it. Wen she discovers wat her turn on point is,she should feel free to discuss it with hrr man. The main problem started with her first encounter which has subconsciously bin dere n will always be unless she finds time to work on herself. Depending on her location, she could go to a sex shop n use the sex calculating machine which would tell her where she stands. It only involves placing her left palm on it n it does d reading. Dat will defo wake her up. Its a psychological n subconscious prob. Hopes dis helps.Omo J.xx
She does nt hv a problem, she is not just well sexually stimulated, it has nothing to do with hormones, it is psychological, linked to trust issues,mlook what she said abt her first n his selfish issues, she should learn to lose herself when makin love, remove all other thoughts n concentrate on getting pleasured! The guy is a nice dude tho, too bad he has a sore cock for it…lol
Lubricant! On his cock and her pussy… (apply as required).
The comments so far as been very wonderful. I think its hormonal imbalance, she should try using aphrodisiacs and lubes….its helps….I know, lve been there. And she shud be happy she has a frd in her man,cos that’s the only way she can be comfortable with her sexuality, give it time it’ll be fine. And about your pelvic being tight it is not something out of the ordinary,it is a medical condition with short ladies,but with enough sex during pregnancy and exercise,it will be fine. Just relax, you are in good hands (Gods hands)
aodes perhaps a psychological condition that needs a different approach. she shld see a shrink, talk abt the bf that disvirgined her and find a way to get that first experience out of her head. that’s where her mind returns to everytime she gets into a sexual situation. a little wine will sure do the trick…and a lot of foreplay will save damage to that brothers cock… she needs to properly get in the mood…I know a shrink, could do a dinner with her and her bf to give a soft landing…
Funny thing about life is that big complex problems often have the simplest solutions. From what I see here, the young woman simply lacks water. She needs to hydrate herself with 3ltrs (2 big eva) bottles of water not coke, not juice, not nutriC but water, every day. Cut down on her salt intake and monitor her body. So that she can pay the young man back for all his efforts.
I don’t know what I found more interesting – the conversations above or below!Only thing to add…You’re doing a wonderful job, Elsie. God bless you.
If all of the above doesn’t help, get a lubricant…. it’s everywhere and wiv lovely flavours. It’ll jes be perfect and u two wl definitely enjoy it.. been there #wink#
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